Drinking. Good or Bad?

Sighs such a small matter blow up until so big.. jus gonna blog this out to state my stand...

i personally feel that drinking during parties or gatherings isnt wrong.. my parents offer me drinks during parties. shirley's temple.. shandy.. these are cocktails. diluted alcohol.. but what happens when its pure alcohol?

once at this new year gathering.. 31st december 2004.. my dad offered me carlsberg la. before that i nv tasted beer. it was hard liquor at darren's bday party.. and i thought i could handle the carlsberg alone.. 3 or 4 cans? i could no longer count how many.. but my dad was there to make sure i didnt go overboard.. over that mark between sane and insane.. over that line between clothes on and clothes off..

drink here drink there.. during parties.. i personally find it acceptable.. but to a minimal extent.. if ur there without others who arent drinking, ur probably going to have kidney failure by the end of the month.

think about it.. at darren's party ( darren ur witness to this ).. rmb charmaine? if darren wasnt sober enough. would the both of them have done it at the playground under the slide? thank god darren wasnt too drunk and didnt cross that line. he wld've been in deep shit. im not going to be detailed. jus note that as long as one person is there to control the level of activitiy in the group.. i guess drinking is fine.

but no. not when everyone is drunk and mad. everyone. if everyone is so drunk, would there be people alive? if all of them had fallen asleep at east coast park.. wouldnt the police have come and take them away? drunk. stench. underaged..

what im trying to say is that.. drinking is acceptable but its level of acceptability is being questioned. in certain cases, u cant say tis acceptable.. but yet in some other cases.. how can we not accept it as a social norm? christmas party.. dont u all eat log cake? dont u know that log cakes contain alcohol?

if there's no one to contrl ur level of drinking.. u get so fucking drunk and die. who's going to account for it then? u never know what will happen. when will ur kidneys fail u? im afraid.. although this is just one time.. soon enough if u cant resist the temptation. resist being dared.. resist being pushed by peer pressure.. and if all of u get drunk and dont know what ur doing.. u know how dangerous that can get? molotov cocktails.. bottle fights.. maybe girls dont do that. but does that give u license to drink?

ahh i admit. i was drunk before. in the wrong places.. circumstances.. at darren's bday party there were his church brothers.. older.. much older.. 20? 21? and thank god they were there.. otherwise no one would have controlled how much we drank..

im not against drinking.. but also i dont see e point in drinking when ur not having a certain function.. who in the right state of mind would encourage drinking.. who would?

"drinking is good for u. it helps u. beer. haha. very good very good."

wine is fine. wine increases blood circulation. certified by doctors. thats why my grandpa drinks wine. but the doctors also deter him from drinking too much. my grandpa drinks around 3 glasses at lunch and 3 at dinner. how is that acceptable? he's now immune to alcohol. and i've never seen him drunk. and the doctor said that overdose of alcohol is dangerous. to ur blood pressure level and blood content too. imagine if ur red blood cells were inhabited with alcohol. haemoglobin malfunction..then how? kidney failure.. then how? dont say " this wont happen to me la. " do u have friends who are deaf? dumb? gone through amputation? all say that "this wont happen to me.." but what happened?

just know where the limit is. im not accusing u of not knowing the limit.. but im saying that u shld now la.. where the limit is.. not drink once every week.. or everynight.. but please know where to stop.. sighs i dont want u to turn out like charmaine.. if u wanna knw what happened.. ask me personally i dont want to disclose it to the public.. sensitive topic.. jus please please please know ur limits.. not saying that u were in the wrong.. but saying that nxt time if u ever drink.. please know ur limits if im not there.. and dont resort to illegal methods to get the drink.. dont steal rob or anything.. yeah thats all.. going for lunch..